Fun to think about

Daily writing prompt
What’s something you would attempt if you were guaranteed not to fail.

Sell our current house and buy a bigger property where I had room for a decent woodshop. I’m assuming that since this endeavor is guaranteed not to fail, such a big move would be feasible and meet with my wife’s approval. More space might make it easier for her to commit to growing her embroidery business. As it currently stands, we’re a bit cramped.

At this point in my life, that’s as bold as I can imagine.

Plans In the Macro

Daily writing prompt
What was the hardest personal goal you’ve set for yourself?

I’m not sure I’ve looked at life that way. Maybe unconsciously, but I’ve never considered myself a goal setter. There have been things I’ve done, and completed, but it’s never been that I’ve sat down and made a five-year plan or an itemized list and checked things off. It’s never felt like my life has been one long To Do list.

The biggest endeavor we undertook– as a family, though the kids probably wouldn’t describe it that way– was when we pulled up roots and moved to Gettysburg so I could go to seminary. The unstated or assumed goal– the mission– was to sustain and support ourselves along the way, and to complete the course of study, which we did. What followed for the next 26 years involved my unstated and, again, assumed purpose of being present for my family and the people of the congregations I served– a sometimes difficult balancing act.

Goal setting has always been sort of a mystery to me. My life has felt more Forrest Gump-like than anything done with intentionality and blinders on.

Lists

Daily writing prompt
Who are your favorite artists?

Artist is a broad term. I’m not really familiar with many painters, except some of the titans– Caravaggio, Da Vinci, van Gogh, Monet, Michelangelo, etc.; American Gothic, by Grant Wood, and Banksy. Rodin and MIchelangelo come to mind, in terms of sculptors, and no architects besides Frank Lloyd Wright.

Musical artists make up a different category. I’m stuck in the 70s, mostly, so America, The Beatles, Beach Boys, Boston, Chicago, Judy Collins, the Eagles, early Elton John, Joni Mitchell, CSN&Y, Billy Joel, James Taylor, Carol King, Heart, Doobie Brothers, Earth, Wind and Fire, Pink Floyd, Stevie Wonder, Led Zeppelin, a bit of Clapton and a few Rolling Stones tunes, early Melissa Manchester; Bruce Hornsby, Sting, Sheryl Crow, Bonnie Raitt, Alanis Morissette, some big band stuff, Classical Gas by Mason Williams, Dave Brubeck, and Vince Guaraldi.

Here and There

Daily writing prompt
What is your favorite hobby or pastime?

I guess I know what I’d like it to be: woodworking. If I could, and it wouldn’t happen very often, I’d be in the shop from dawn ’til dusk, taking piles of unfinished wood and turning them into finely crafted products worthy of use, worthy of selling or giving as gifts. As I mentioned in a recent post, I’d love to be familiar with and well versed in the entire process– from choosing materials to designing or understanding procedures and plans and tricks of the trade, to knowing how to operate and use the different tools, to measuring, fitting, and finishing.

In reality, it’s probably looking around, taking things in, gazing at sunsets and the night sky and trying to get my head around the mysteries, contemplating an unfathomably large universe.

Circumstances

Daily writing prompt
What would you do if you lost all your possessions?

I’ve often enough thought about that, for some reason. On the one hand, I imagine it being hard to handle, shocking, somehow unreal. I would miss the mementos the most– family photos, etc. On the other hand, I feel as though we could muddle through the self-pity and heartache with the help of family and friends, and we’d be OK, especially if it was an insurable loss. If for some reason it wasn’t, or it’s because the country has descended into civil war or been attacked by external threats, then it becomes something different.

Wow, I wasn’t thinking this would conclude by going there.

Moving and Shifting

Daily writing prompt
What’s a topic or issue about which you’ve changed your mind?

There was gradual movement from abhorrence to acceptance of homosexuality once I grew up a bit and looked around and met people who either were in a same sex relationship or who had children who were. The issue became no longer an issue, or evolved to have different foci.

The new issue that emerged, that took its place, involved my respect or reverence for Scripture, and religion in general. I came to understand that as beautiful and enriching as some of it was and continues to be, I’ve also come to realize that the Bible is a collection of different types of writing, compiled a long time ago by people who, apart from divine inspiration, were opining on topics that were beyond their understanding and levels of expertise, that their opinions were contextual, and that they were even shooting from the hip.

For the same reason that one doesn’t look for a recipe for Confit de Canard in a how-to manual on auto repair, one best look elsewhere for insights into human development and relationships in places besides Leviticus, or elsewhere in either the Old or New Testament.

A Bird in a Fish Tank

Daily writing prompt
Tell us about a time when you felt out of place.

I was dorky in high school, joined a frat in college even though I wasn’t really a frat person– I was just following a couple other guys I knew in the dorm where I lived, and didn’t know what to do with myself.

But I think what stands out for the purpose of this prompt are the 26 years I spent in the ministry, for a variety of reasons– my heart was rarely in it, I always had doubts, and I seldom felt qualified to contribute to the conversation when we got together in various collegial settings. More often than not, I felt like I was in over my head.

No, thanks

Daily writing prompt
Your life without a computer: what does it look like?

It looks like having to scramble, a bit of thumb twiddling, and searching the memory banks for what I used to do before I could reach for the iPad or sit in front of the desktop.

No more easy ordering off of Amazon, no YouTube clips, no Chat GPT queries, no Wikipedia look-ups, no quick news updates. No more world at one’s fingertips.

It means giving the library card a workout. It means making a To Do list. It means maybe sitting in front of the piano a bit more often, or dusting off the guitar and finally developing some callouses. Maybe it means going outside and being less sedentary. It might mean having to brush up on conversation skills.

I’d consider it a step backwards, though, because for all the lip people of a certain mindset give it, when one moves beyond the stock complaint about it being a distraction, I consider the computer and most of what it has brought an advancement– a marvelous, (r)evolutionary innovation that can make one’s life easier and better. And if the attendant technology was gone with it, then maybe we’d have to say goodbye to safer air travel, healthcare innovations and charting, the smart TV, GPS, and even my Golf Buddy.

Life without a computer would be a return to some sort of Dark Ages.

All Facets

Daily writing prompt
What skill would you like to learn?

I’d like to learn my way around the wood shop– from selecting materials to measuring to joining to finishing; have knowledge of the essential tools, like the table saw, drill press, lathe, router, etc. I’d like to be able to internalize the steps involved in taking an idea and turning it into something concrete and usable, whether it’s a roll-around cart, shelving, a potting shed, or something more decorative and artsy.

To Do

Daily writing prompt
What’s your #1 priority tomorrow?

In broad terms, to be productive, get something done. It might be a recycling day, which means a stop at Walmart to combine trips. We suddenly have a breaker issue that needs attention, and the electrician we’ve called on in the past often needs multiple calls before he responds, so that’ll probably be on the list. My wife’s car needs a basic lube, oil, and filter service, so that call might get made. Tuesday is Zoom day, so I’ll send out an invite in the morning and we’ll talk with folks in the afternoon.

Out of all that, getting ahold of Ed the electrician will probably be a priority.