Altruism Still Exists

Daily writing prompt
What’s a moment when a stranger completely restored your faith in people?

As helpful as these writing prompts can be, one issue I have is that they occasionally present situations that require retrieval from the memory banks, which in this particular instance has thus far resulted in no examples of faith being restored by a stranger. I’ve seen plenty of them on YouTube, though I’m not sure how many are staged or just AI. Nothing from real life is coming to mind at the moment, beyond someone holding a door and offering a kind word.

Despite getting our daily overdose of reminders of people’s capacity for behaving poorly– often our leaders– I realize that kindness and bravery and other virtuous behavior are by no means in short supply. In general, I still have faith in humanity, just not in some among the current batch of elected humanity– if “humanity” is the right word– holding office in this country and other places around the world.

Wait! I just thought of someone we met a week or so ago. My wife and I were visiting a working farm that’s also a tourist attraction in the Wilkes-Barre/Scranton area and we happened to run into the fourth generation farmer who helps run the place.

He gave us a ride around the property, showed us what they were doing, told us what they had plans to do, and was proud of what they had accomplished thus far. He might be one of the world’s greatest salesmen, but it felt like a serendipitous moment, from our perspective, since we were wandering around, I wasn’t sure where we should be walking, and this man out of the blue offers us a tour, takes maybe a half-hour out of his still-busy day to give us the lay of the land.

I remember thinking that I’ve seen this kind of down-to-earth, unabashed, unprovoked kindness somewhere else, and it was from another farmer closer to home.

Anyway, there are people around who are so comfortable in their own skin that their “genuineness” just pours out of them. They don’t know any other way to be, and it feels good to be in their presence, gives one hope, sets an example.

Tasty Fare

Daily writing prompt
What’s the best local dish you’ve ever eaten while traveling?

In Jerusalem, Old City. I’d have to say the times we ate in a small place in the Muslim Quarter that served traditional cuisine– hummus, falafel, salads, schwarma, fresh pita bread, Turkish coffee.

The first thing that came to mind was fish and chips in Seahouses, England, but they served peas as a side, and the fries just weren’t the same as we have ’em in the States. I still finished what was on my plate, though.

Something of a Force

Daily writing prompt
Share a photo of your pet and tell us one thing that makes them uniquely them.

I know we have pictures somewhere, but I couldn’t find any of Casey, a brownish Lhasa Apso/Jack Russell mix who was part of the household from 2001 until the spring of 2013, from 3 kids in the house to empty nest time.

We haven’t had a dog since, for a few reasons– we like the freedom of not having to worry about vet bills and boarding when we go away, and it was really hard to let her go when she finally got so sick that we had to have her put down. I haven’t been in any hurry to go through that again.

Casey didn’t like fireworks or thunderstorms, and I remember that it was always a bit of an adventure taking her for a walk, because when she got anywhere near another dog, she would go ballistic. Every time. She was a good buddy, but could be a bit high strung and anxious.

Stop, Look, and Listen

Daily writing prompt
What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

Looking back, I think it was a collective, ongoing acquisition, more from watching and listening than from any one thing someone said. I grew up in a family that was often gathering for one reason or another, mostly for food and fellowship. Multiple generations were usually present, and it was difficult not to hear things, not to notice behavior and tones of voice and the occasional pearl of wisdom from one elder or another.

For better or worse, my own view of the world and how to behave in it was formed over the course of those years of get-togethers. There was love there, regular reminders that people cared about each other, even as we grew to make our own decisions about whose voice carried more weight, and who was just blowing smoke.

Retreating

Daily writing prompt
What’s something you used to worry about but don’t anymore?

Keeping a schedule, structuring my day. All that went away when I retired almost five years ago.

I guess the downside is that the pendulum has swung 180 degrees and the lack of a schedule or any structure occasionally weighs on me for different reasons. I feel pressure to be busy, to be occupied, but I have little desire for this. I think I could be content with writing all day.

I don’t miss being around people at all, though it is nice to hop on a plane or jump in the car and take a trip, visit with family every now and then.

Observations

Daily writing prompt
What’s a quote that perfectly describes your outlook on life?

I’ve never read any of the Harry Potter books, but I came across a quote from J.K. Rowling from Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone that strikes a chord: “It does not do to dwell on dreams and forget to live.” I have no idea of the context for this, but it resonates with me, if only because it speaks to being so wrapped up in what could be that we overlook, avoid, or don’t recognize opportunities or serendipitous moments that might be staring us in the face and have a bearing on what actually is.

There are many others that could speak to my outlook on life, including one from E.B. White: “If the world were merely seductive, that would be easy. If it were merely challenging, that would be no problem. But I arise in the morning torn between a desire to improve the world and a desire to enjoy the world. This makes it hard to plan the day.

Indeed.

Carried Away

Daily writing prompt
What are your top 10 travel destinations?

There are many places in this country that we haven’t visited yet– The Upper Peninsula of Michigan, Teddy Roosevelt National Park in North Dakota; Yellowstone, Yosemite, Sequoia, Sand Dunes and Rocky Mountain National Parks, along with less well known spots all over this land.

I’d like to travel to Japan and visit for a while, also Australia and New Zealand; maybe pay a visit to relatives in Sweden and venture into the other Scandinavian countries. And Iceland.

I guess that’s more than 10.

Currently

Daily writing prompt
What is your favorite quote?

Every time this topic appears, I choose something different. So this time around, I’ll use one from Bertrand Russell, since it seems a propos of the times in which we live:

The fact that an opinion has been widely held is no evidence that it is not utterly absurd.